Sex Chat room rules
Use of our chat rooms and other services are bound by these rules,
and our terms of service.
You must be an adult over the age of 18
Violating the chat systems rules or etiquette policies will get you kicked from the chat room, possibly permanently banned from using the chat system ever again. Some kicks / bans last for only 5 minutes, some infractions would cause a moderator to kick you from the chat room for one hour, or six hours, maybe even 24 hours. Users who commit major offenses, and can not log into the chat room 36 hours after being banned, have been added to the permanent ban list.
No one under 18, or pretending to be, can use this chat system.
No flooding the room with the same comment over and over
Do not post phone numbers, email addresses, or IM (Instant message, like yahoo, msn, skype, etc) in the chat rooms
Do not use our chat rooms to promote any commercial or affiliated products, services, or web sites.
Do not post commercial urls, or urls to other chat services, or porn sites.
No cam invites (come see my cam, who wants to watch my cam, who wants cam to cam, etc)
No hate speech, no religious talk, and no politics in the lobby.
Use of this chat systems implies an understanding of, and agreement to our overall terms of service and privacy policies.
Chat Room Etiquette
Users who abuse these will be warned. If the behavior persists you will be kicked or banned from the site.
NO USING ALL CAPITOL LETTERS – unless sparingly and necessary.
Ask someone in the public chat if they want to private message, hitting them up with pm’s when not already being invited is bad manners to most people.
Some conversation styles are not appropriate for the lobby or public rooms. If you and someone else decide that you both want to engage in conversation that some may find offensive, then take your conversation to private messages or another chat room within the system. You can find other rooms by clicking on the rooms tab, and you can also create you own room, and you can password protect it if you want to limit the conversation to certain people that you pm the password to.
We occasionally have chat room moderators in the rooms. When one of our moderators is in “Admin” role, their name will appear in red in the user list. Mods are people too, who want to enjoy conversations with friends, and will often be very busy with pms and whispers. If you have a problem or witness a serious infraction, you may be able to pm one of the moderators for help or to report a rules violation.
Sometimes moderators will be in the rooms and not be showing in red, so if you are not sure if there is a mod around, you could ask the room if any mods are here – or if you are in one of the sub-rooms, then you can pop into the lobby and ask if any mods are around, and ask to PM or whisper any issues.
Be nice to the moderators, the chat room mods are busy people, and we have a lot on our plates. We can easily misunderstand something someone is typing, so be polite. We can kick people out of the chat room, and permanently ban you and your ip address just for taking up our time; being rude and short with the mods can make that happen faster. If you have a complaint about a moderator, please contact us via our online contact form and we will look into the situation and email you back if you ask us to.
We prefer that arguments not be ongoing drama in the lobby. If you disagree with another user, agree to disagree and do not fill up the chat window with flame wars, or fan the flames either. If you have a problem with a user pm a mod, or send a message to the site admins. Use the ignore / block button to silence someone who is typing what you don’t want to hear.
Nick Name Guidelines -
Many people find conversations in chat room faster and easier when the screen name chosen has additional asl info – like: Sam-25m or Jenny31Lez or Mel29-f-CA – it’s not necessary, but helpful to have some additional info in your screen name.
The following are not allowed in nick names and will result in being kicked by the moderator:
No IM IDs (yahoo, msn, skype, etc) or e-mail addresses (mesohorny@yahoo) type screen names.
No phone numbers
No URL based names (website.com, etc.)
Any nickname with incest, or pedophile, or other terms that would insinuate you are not an adult or looking for someone who is not, in it or any variation deemed unsuitable by the moderator(s).
Coming to the room with Rape, or another controversial word in the your nickname could get you kicked from the system, edgeplay names are not permitted to stay in the lobby. If you must have some controversial discussions or screen names that may offend a majority of users, then you must either move to one of the niche rooms that do not find offense, or logout and change your name.
Further, the use of cam or webcam or camera is not allowed in nick names, or in conversations on the lobby. This is for your protection from web cam scammers. If a nick name contains cam or some derivative of that, be aware that that individual could be a web cam scammer. DO NOT GIVE ANYONE YOU MEET IN THE CHAT ROOMS A CREDIT CARD NUMBER!!!
The word Boy in a nick is highly discouraged. Either drop boy from your nick name or add your age to the nick name.
This web site follows the ASACP guidelines for unacctable terms – using any of the terms listed above in your screen name or lobby conversations will get you permanently banned from using this web site.
Use the ignore/block user button! If you don’t like what someone is saying in the lobby, or to you, click their name and click block user! Poof- they are gone!
You may want to change the chat system settings to “auto-ignore all pms” – you can tell people that you have your settings this way – so pming you without asking first is just a waste of time for them. All pms will be blocked – this is a popular option for girls who enter the chat room and gets lots of uninvited private messages.
We don’t want our users to get scammed, spammed, or solicited for commercial anything in our free chat rooms, so help us help you, and help others, by reporting any of that activity.
If people ask for your IM addy, (yahoo, MSN, skype, etc) or email address, beware that they could be trying to get info to sell to spammers. We have caught a few shady people asking us to add them on yahoo or MSN, only to later ask that we go to a website url to watch their “live sex cam” –
Clicking on unknown links can put your computer in harms way. Watch out for viruses and malware by not clicking on links people post in the lobby or via pms unless you know where those links go, and have a current, up to date anti-virus and spywayre program running on your system. Generally I just don’t click on any links anyone posts in the chat system – it’s normally bad aware, or something trying to sell or scam you in other way.
I do not recommend anyone give out their email or IM addys to people, it’s an easy way to end up on a spam list that gets resold to other spammers which brings more spammers and hackers to your email and Instant messenger / IMs.
If anyone tries to solicit you to engage in another sex chat site, or another commercial web site, or try to get you send money or credit card information, send a private message to one of the moderators if they are in the room and let them know.
We do have a very active community of regular users (regs) in the room. if you are new to the site, take your time in getting to know the regs and moderators. Like all social interactions, it takes time for others to get to know you and vice versa. Enjoy the banter, enjoy the interchanges and sometimes crazy humor and you will be fine. Our regs are mostly friendly people who are willing to help you learn the best practices for using the chat rooms here. Patience goes a long way to help you find the right person to get into good sex chat with.
It is highly recommended that anyone using this chat site, or any other chat system on the internet to have a firm understanding of the chat room safety procedures.
If want to talk about edge play, or anything else that people may find offensive, do not do it in the main lobby. You can create your own private chat room. If anyone complains about what you are chatting about, it’s a good clue that you should take the conversation to another room.
Do not post any email adress, web site address, Instan Messenger ID, or phone numbers in the chatrooms.
Do not invite anyone to see your cam, or join you in a cam place elsewhere on the internet.
Do not discuss religion or politics in the chat room, and no hate speech either.
You may not promote any other commercial service, products or web site with out service.
DO NOT USE ALL CAPS
Your screen name, or nickname must follow certain rules as well
You may not put any instant messenger ID or email addy in your screen name.
You may not put a phone number, or url or web site in your screen name.
You may not put the words rape, or pedo, or incest, or anything similar to this in your screen name. No son, family crap, anything like that will get you banned.
You may not put webcam or cam or anything like this in your screen name.
We also suggest that you do not use the word boy, or any of these following terms that could be confused with pedo type stuff:
I set my settings to auto-open pms (private messages) in a new window, you may want to (especially females) set your settings to auto-ignore all pms. You can tell people that you have your settings this way – so pming you without asking first is just a waste of time for them.
If people ask for your IM addy, (yahoo, MSN, skype, etc) or email address, beware that they could be trying to get info to sell to spammers. We have caught a few shady people asking us to add them on yahoo or MSN, only to later ask that we go to a website url to watch their “live sex cam” – clicking on unkown links can put your computer in harms way. Watch out for viruses and malware. I do not reccomend anyone give out their email or IM addys to people, it’s an easy way to end up on a spam list that gets resold to other spammers.
Use the ignore button! If you don’t like what someone is saying in the lobby, or to you, click their name and click the ignore button! Poof- they are gone!
If anyone tries to solicit you to engage in another commercial sex chat site, or try to get you send money or credit card information, send a private message to one of the moderators if they are in the room and let them know. We don’t want our users to get scammed, spammed, or solicited for commercial anything in our free chat rooms, so help us help you, and help others, by reporting any of that activity.
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